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Gothic: The term simply explained

Posted on June 21, 2011 by thegothlist / 0 Comment

Gothic is a culture that is almost 40 years old and struggles with one or the other prejudice. To find the answer to the question of what Gothic actually is, we...

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A brief history of goths – Dan Adams

Posted on October 21, 2010 by thegothlist / 0 Comment

What do fans of atmospheric post-punk music have in common with ancient barbarians? Not much … so why are both known as “goths”? Is it a weird coincidenc...

Between books, between your legs
November 8, 2022
You wanted to show me your favourite place: a crowded second-hand bookstore with narrow aisles. You like to lose yourself in it – in summer it is pleasantly cool and in winter the crooked rooms are heated. My sex story between the books. I walk for a while, passing shelves of French and English literature, books about India and at some point, when I’m not sure how I would find the cash register and the entrance again, I find you. You’re standing on a ladder and look at yourself the dusty, barely legible spines of the books. When you hear my footsteps on the creaking floor, you turn around briefly before dedicating yourself to the books again. “Did you find something exciting?”. You shrug. “There’s everything here. A book by de Beauvoir, for example. Someone must have made a joke, look: next to the philosophy shelf there are books on the subject of sex.” You tilt your head to the side and read the titles under your breath: ” Superposition, One in the Other… ” You take another step up the ladder. “…Ah, or here. There’s also real eroticism here: Anaïs Nin.” A slight smile appears on your face as you leaf through the book A slight smile appears on your face as you leaf through the book. “… which lay on top of her and slid up high enough to rub his penis between her breasts, which then slid even further up to her mouth… The book is even illustrated with little drawings, take a look.” You hold the open book out to me, your gaze has changed, there is now something curious, challenging in it. The open page shows a reclining woman drawn with simple pencil lines. Her legs are slightly spread and her lips are slightly indicated behind her pubic hair. You keep browsing. ” His finger touched the bud very gently, then it slipped between the pulsating lips…” You read this section particularly slowly, delaying every word. With every breath I get a little closer to you. Your wish is my command As I stand in front of you, your eyes get smaller and smaller, you read the last sentence – a command to me: ” He felt the moisture…” and you lift your skirt a little, my head disappears and you feel the warmth between your legs. I start kissing your skin with soft, shy kisses. I hear a groan of relief, a stifled laughter above me. My lips search for the fabric of your panties and press against them, my tongue runs over them once and wants to find a way, but your hangs stop me and push my head away. “Are you getting enough air down there too?”. You smile sheepishly. I nod and smile back. You cover your mouth with your left hand to stifle a groan, with your right you push my head back between your legs. First gently, then more resolutely, more firmly. I pull your panties aside with my index finger and thumb, with the other hand I gently feel your moisture. You press my head even more against you and I lick you. Slowly at first, exploring, then more determinedly, responding to your muffled moans. I can’t see anything, but I smell you, taste you, my mouth is … read moreRead More
A hot reunion – Of really good sex with the long-term affair
October 18, 2022
I breathe in and I breathe out. It’s raining outside and I close my eyes. Feel everything again. Perceive what is happening here with all your senses. is this a dream Or is it reality? We have never gone as far as today. I smell the scent of summer rain blowing in through the open window. How he lays on my skin and on yours. You and me, that was actually years ago. A classic romance that lasted four years more or less. We have never gone as far as today. We’re not a couple – never have been. But there is a deep connection between us. There’s a reason we keep finding each other. Some would call it fate, others attraction, others chemistry. it’s not love It’s basically a lot less and at the same time a lot more than that. You know me – really. And I know you The air is hot and oppressive when you open your apartment door for me. A storm is in the air, ready to roll over us all now that I’m lying in front of you. The silence between the individual raindrops rustles so loudly, as if someone had turned on the speakers. Booming yet soothing. Massive Attack’s “Teardrop” is playing in my head. The silence between the individual raindrops rustles so loudly, as if someone had turned on the speakers. Booming yet soothing. Massive Attack’s “Teardrop” is playing in my head. Each thunder like an earthquake that swallows everything else. In the world there is only the two of us. Your hands make their way over my upper body, open my blouse and stroke my breasts while you gently kiss me first on the mouth and then on my collarbone. your eyes look at me Calmly, well thought out, but there is greed in them too. I know this greed, it was there before. Giving in to her is new. “Are you sure?” you ask me. I nod, breathe almost inaudibly: “Yes”. Your hands and lips keep wandering after you get your answer. The tenderness of your kisses remains, but suddenly they seem electrically charged to me. Every kiss like a little electric shock. In my heart and between my legs. While you undress me, you also get rid of your own clothes. Slowly, like in slow motion. And suddenly we’re where we’ve never been before. It’s dark in your bedroom, in your apartment, high above the street. Sweat and each other’s breath moistens both of our skin. You kneel in front of me, lying naked and defenseless in front of you. I give you my everything, I want it that way. You kneel in front of me, lying there naked and exposed in front of you. I give you my everything, I want it that way. While the world outside seems to go down in thunder and flashing lights. Only we are here, that’s how it feels. And suddenly I feel you everywhere. Your breath hot on my skin, your lips burn on mine, your hands intertwine with my fingers trembling from your little electric shocks. I feel your chest against mine, your middle against mine. you in me Slowly, hesitantly, again and again, deeper and deeper, more and more. I’m breathing hard, pull you close to me. I’m … read moreRead More
The sex addiction
September 12, 2022
dear women, what do Kanye West, Michael Douglas, Charlie Sheen, Tiger Woods, Lindsay Lohan, Megan Fox, James Blunt, Arnold Schwarzenegger and Bushido have in common? Are you (or were) a sex addict? – No. You claimed it. – Yes. Not everyone who says they’re a sex addict actually is. Which doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. The excuse Apparently celebs are only human. Which is why celebrities who are in a relationship sometimes have sex outside of that relationship. They cheat. They are having an affair. Whatever you call it, they do. And because they’re obviously only human, they try to talk their way out of it. In contrast to some other people, however, it is not always so easy for a celebrity person to talk their way out, because they might be recorded in picture and sound as they stuck their tongue down someone’s throat, put their hand on their ass or the Have genitals slide into each other. Silly. What are you doing there? You still don’t admit that you just screwed up a lot of shit. Then you were sick. Yes, you know how it is with the stars of this world, they take drugs and drink their heads off, all addicts before the Lord, and if we know one thing, it’s that an addicted celebrity always has a good reason for this addiction, namely that he had a hard time as a kid, that he had a hard time as a star, that he couldn’t handle fame, he couldn’t handle depression, that everyone else did too. And then he goes into rehab where he lies by the pool next to the other addicted fallen stars and everything is fine. And he doesn’t have to take responsibility. Well, that can be transferred very well to sex. And he doesn’t have to take responsibility. Because that’s what it’s about. So the sex addiction is a perfectly welcome excuse for fucking around. And sex addiction is also an addiction that is associated with a lot of prestige: it shows how potent I am, how masculine I am when I am a man, how free and unbound and emancipated when I am a woman. Sex addiction, yes, yes, that’s something you can definitely brag about. They do it again and again, the stars. And the alleged. I’m thinking of Nico Schwartz. The Addiction But sex addiction is actually an addiction. And with it an illness. And maybe one or the other of the people listed really did suffer from sex addiction. But the word “suffered” is crucial. We speak of an addiction when it can no longer be controlled. This is reflected, for example, in the fact that other areas of life are neglected. When work isn’t done properly anymore, when family gets cut short, so when it’s all about what you’re addicted to. In many cases, this has financial consequences, since most addictions are expensive. But that doesn’t matter to a certain extent. Because you need that. Because if you don’t have that, then you feel bad, shit, sick. With many of the so-called substance-related addictions, i.e. the classic drugs, there is a massive physical withdrawal with fever and chills and whatnot. In the case of behavioural addictions, when one is addicted to a certain behaviour, the … read moreRead More
The concert
September 5, 2022
dear women, is your husband one who gives you the foreplay you expect of him? When I ask around, it’s the way it works: the woman wants foreplay, the man wants to fuck. But since the man has also flipped through a women’s magazine before, he knows that the woman wants foreplay before he can fuck, so he squeezes her breasts a little, kisses her neck once and then bites her nipple that you lose the desire for foreplay. And then stuffed. Sorry for the expression. Or is that different for you? The opening act When we go to a concert, there’s that band we want to see. We’re looking forward to it. For which we paid 60 euros. Or more. 160. And we can’t wait. And then comes the opening act. If nobody ordered, nobody wants to hear it, play anyway. Why? The artist says: To give the boys a chance to be heard. You know the various legends that prove that the opening act was more successful in the end than the main act. Looks good in various biographies and such. The opening act will agree. And hope that one day they too will be able to add this legend to their success story. The warm-up But I think if we ask the organizer, the one who also spends money that the opening act plays, even if not much, then it’s about heating up the audience: Anyone who has ever stood on a stage knows that the first few minutes are the worst because then you have to fight for everyone’s attention. And then you have to prove that you’re worth getting that attention. keep mood. boost mood. Dramaturgy to the climax. Then you are relieved and the main act lies down in a preheated bed and is allowed to hose down. I’m just messing up the pictures. Because the process is obviously quite similar. Except that at least no one else is dusting for me during sex. And yet the feeling remains that foreplay is just what the name says: that which comes before the real thing. And that’s why it may only be played, because there’s really no interest. Just like you clapping the opening act and maybe even give them a Uh, but you’re glad when it’s over. The main act But then, hooray, we got through it, even if it was good, even if we plan to google the opening act when we get home, which we won’t do, because after the concert is after the band’s concert, for them we came. Orgasm. But what if the promoter didn’t announce the opening act as opening act, but as one of two acts? When the hierarchy falls? If you know one band but not the other, but both are equal. So if concerts were double packs. Would we then maybe look less condescendingly at the unknown band? Would we maybe even look forward to it? Hey, I’m excited to see what new things I’ll discover today? Might work. Maybe. Only during sex? Then there should also be something to discover during foreplay. But I’m afraid that routine is unwound just as often (or more often) during foreplay. Rock The solution might be that we leave the foreplay alone. No, I don’t mean what oh … read moreRead More
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July 18, 2022
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Kyoto pentagram temple, Seimei Shrine! Japanese occult destinations, pentacle Onmyodo diviner Abe no Seimei.
(Goth travel journalist / content creator La Carmina in Shinjuku, Tokyo.) 2025 is shaping up to be one of my wildest years yet… I’ll definitely be in Japan, so please stay tuned for announcements! And I have more dream projects in the works (can’t reveal them yet, but these are going to rock your socks). […]
Tokyo Goth Halloween parties, events, clubs! Gothic Midnight Mess, drag queen shows, LGBTQ nightclubs.
Can’t believe it is this time of year again… This is Halloween, this is Halloween! Unfortunately, I wasn’t able to make it to Japan for 2024 spooky season… But I have tons to share from last year’s All Hallow’s Eve, including a look at parties you can attend this weekend. (On Saturday, Oct 26, Mistress […]
Machu Picchu & hip Cuzco travel guide! Action Treks Peru luxury day tour, cute alpacas, Incan ruins Sacsayhuamán.
Gotta catch ’em all… I didn’t nab Pikachu, but finally made it to my 7th World Wonder: Machu Picchu! Read on for details of my journey — including serving Y2K looks at the circuit board citadel of the Inca. I went to Peru for the first time with my friend Albert Ting of The Click Ting […]
Koenji Tokyo Yokai Parade: Japanese spirits folk masks festival! Rick Owens rave, Akabane Reien haunted ghost pub.
Boo! Ready for more spooky Tokyo, Japan stories? Yukiro and I are delighted to fright you all year round! My Koenji yokai parade video went viral on @LaCarmina Instagram, and many of you asked for details like — when and where the Tokyo yokai parade takes place next, for Halloween 2024. Read on for the […]

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